SEXUALITY: OPTIONS FOR SEXUAL EXPRESSION
March 20th, 2011
The range of human sexual expression is virtually infinite. What you find personally satisfying and enjoyable may not be an option for someone else. The ways you choose to meet your sexual needs today may have been very different two weeks ago or will be two years from now. Knowing and accepting yourself as a [...]
SEXUALITY: VARIANT SEXUAL BEHAVIOR
February 20th, 2011
Although attitudes toward sexuality have changed radically since the Victorian era, some people believe that any sexual behavior other than heterosexual intercourse is abnormal, deviant, or perverted. Rather than using these value-laden terms, people who study sexuality prefer to use the term variant sexual behavior to describe sexual behaviors that are not engaged in by [...]
PSYCHOSEXUAL SKILLS – INSTANCE
April 7th, 2009
Mr I. was a 25-year-old ex-soldier who came complaining of impotence. He could no longer get a condom on and had finished with his girlfriend although he still cared a lot for her. He wanted to talk about his testosterone levels (normal) and not about the fact that he had one testicle. One had been [...]
THE COUPLE – PRESENT
April 7th, 2009
At the present, specialized infertility clinics exist where couples are invited to attend together for their appointments. The joint interviews can provide an extra dimension in the realm of differential diagnosis if the interactions between the couple are noted. Often it will be the first time that these two individuals have been seen together. There [...]
AMBIVALENCE ABOUT PREGNANCY
April 7th, 2009
Most steps forward in life involve giving up some of the old as well as gaining the new, from straightforward events such as changing school or job, to complex maturational stages such as moving from childhood to adulthood. The grief of giving up the old combined with anticipation of the new gives rise to very [...]
THE COIL – BALANCING RISKS AND BENEFITS – ADVANTAGES
April 7th, 2009
The coil has many advantages, once fitted it can be forgotten, and sex can be spontaneous. The method seems more natural as it acts on the uterus, in contrast to the Pill which affects the body generally. There is the possibility of pregnancy: ‘I could slip up with the coil and it wouldn’t be my [...]
CONTRACEPTIVE SIGNS OF CONFLICT – INTRODUCTION
April 7th, 2009
Contraceptive decisions are complicated, involving as they do the questions of whether to have children, the timing of such children and how many are wanted, as well as the choice of which contraceptive method and who should use it. Conflicts may manifest themselves in a variety of different ways. There can be a complaint or [...]
EATING FOR SEXUAL SUCCESS
March 27th, 2009
We know that a well-functioning blood-flow system is essential for erections. Over a long period of time, what you eat can mean the difference between a healthy or blocked flow of blood to your penis—the difference between erection and impotence. The keys to good blood flow are your penile arteries. Keeping them working well is [...]
REIGNITING YOUR SEX LIFE: A TESTOSTERONE BOOST
March 27th, 2009
When a man is truly testosterone-deficient, replacement can work wonders. This was the case with a fifty-four-year-old patient named Bill. When he couldn’t help but notice the progressive decline of his sex life, he quickly—and wisely—brought it to my attention. A man who enjoyed a regular sex life with Emily, his wife of twenty-three years, [...]
THE VIRILITY-ENHANCEMENT PROGRAM :THE GINKGO BILOBA EFFECT
March 27th, 2009
The healing powers of this ancient tree include that of an antioxidant. When taken over a period of weeks, it’s thought that compounds in the plants can help to inactivate free radicals. By guarding cell membranes from damage, ginkgo helps to make blood vessel walls more flexible and keeps red blood cells pliable, allowing them [...]